We are in the Christmas season and many people will be seeking companionship, and some will fail, maybe because they put all their eggs in one basket instead of spreading them around. Much has been said about the benefits of having multiple lovers consecutively or concurrently, like a prison sentence
For some persons, being in a relationship is like serving a prison sentence. So, the same principle applies to the benefits of multiple lovers running concurrently, all at the same time. At this point I can hear the collective condemnation of a thousand pious prudes, the simultaneous raising of the eyebrows of zealots, the hue and cry of the hypocrites, and the finger wagging of the holier than thou.
After all, I’m referring to one person having multiple lovers, and that is simply not supposed to be done. Well, it’s done, and very often too, but just not spoken about, relegated to the shadows of hypocrisy, to the chambers of perfidy, to the lair of lies.
So, although it’s not preached, it’s practiced, and based on my research, there are great benefits. Back in the day, and even now, it used to be the purview of men, who had multiple women concurrently. As long as you could afford them, you could have them.
Now, the women seem to have joined the game, and are even better at it than the men in certain areas.. In their case though, it’s strictly for economic benefits. As one lady proudly declared, “I need a man who is trustworthy, a man who is a provider, a man who will take me out, and a man who is a good lover. The secret is not letting these men find out about each other.”
But what about the man who has multiple lovers, surely it’s not for economic gain, so why does he do it, what are the benefits? Well, they do say that variety is the spice of life, so men will pay for that spicy variety.
They also say that monogamy is unnatural and that people only practice it because of the strictures of a hypocritical society, fueled by the preaching of the pious.
Anyway, it’s established that man is polygamous by nature, but mostly suppresses his natural urge to seek pleasure from multiple sources because of social mores. So, many men have multiple lovers, the mistress, the other woman, the concubine.
There are benefits, posit the practitioners of this prurient pleasure. “My life is never dull, as I have multiple personalities dealing with.” “When my wife withholds loving from me, it’s no big deal, as I just go to one of my lovers for satisfaction.”
The justifications are abundant, after all, even in the Bible it’s recorded that many great men had multiple wives, lovers, consorts and concubines.
This even goes outside the Bible too, for there are many religious and non religious sects that endorse the practice of multiple lovers. It’s all about the sects. Hush. I couldn’t resist that one.
Nowadays it’s frowned upon in most modern western societies, so guess what the people do, they turn that frown upside down and practice it underground, in the labyrinth of lust.
That being said about the men, there are also women who endorse the spicy variety. Not counting those women who do it strictly for economic gain, there are some women who actually enjoy this lifestyle.
The fact is, people’s libido differs, and whereas a man may have a strong desire, his wife may not. The reverse is also true.
Based on my findings, even if the wife has no interest in romance and the man goes elsewhere for satisfaction and gratification, it’s problematic. The benefits of spicy variety would solve all these problems. I am not the author of this concept, but merely the harbinger of tidings. I pass no judgment.
What I will say though, is that it’s practiced on a wide scale, but mostly in the shadows. Men will always have secret lovers, women will always have affairs, women will always have multiple babies for different men while men sire many offspring.
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