In Honor of Black women
Comedian Trevor Noah’s emotional farewell on “The Daily Show” last week resonated with many as he gave a special shout-out to Black women.
Illustration by Abdul Wahid, MPEIt was a timely reminder that women of all colors, creeds and classes are to be respected for their knowledge, understanding and wisdom as well as their prudence and leadership abilities.
I have worked with and been inspired by many women – from Caucasian and South Asian to Samoan and Singaporean – but given my upbringing in the Caribbean and then later on living and working within Black communities in America, I, like Trevor, have developed tremendous respect for the Black women who have played a role in shaping and molding me over the past half-century.
We are so blessed to have been inspired by a stellar roster of strong Black women – mothers, grandmothers, aunties, sisters, cousins, godmothers, teachers and even those who acted like they were our parents, as is the case when you are a part of a village of elders who are invested in your personal and professional success.
From my mother Kean, grandmother Rita, great-grandmother Florence, Aunt Iris, Aunt Nita, Auntie Griselda and Auntie Carol to dear friends such as Andria, Clentine, Beverly and Audrey, I consider it an honor to have had and continue to have remarkable Black women hailing from the Caribbean, Africa, America, Europe and beyond in my life.
Trevor told his audience last week: “I've often been credited with having these grand ideas. People [say], ‘Oh Trevor, you're so smart.’ I'm like, ‘Who do you think teaches me? Who do you think shaped me, nourished me and formed me? From my mom, my grand[mother], my aunt, all these Black women in my life, but in America as well.’”
He continued: “Black people understand how hard it is when things go bad, especially in America ... When things go bad, Black people know that it gets worse for them.”
“Do yourself a favor, if you truly want to know what to do or how to do it? Or maybe the best way or the most equitable way? Talk to Black women — they are a lot of the reason [why] I'm here and so I'm grateful to them,” Trevor said. “I'm grateful to every single one of you.”
Congratulations on your accomplishments, Trevor, and thank you for reminding us to give thanks for all women, especially those Black women who have taught us to conduct ourselves with dignity, decency and a sense of decorum.
