A woman scorned or spurned, if you prefer, can bring down hell and damnation and a fury that only mother nature can match in the form of a tempest or volcanic eruption.
And that fury comes in all forms too, not always in a blaze of fire, but can be insidious and sneaky as a slow poison, a toxic venom from a viper, or a silent plague of epic proportions.
A woman spurned is a danger, not only to the person who spurned her, but to almost anyone who is in her proximity. A hurricane that does not discriminate in its path of destruction. Plus the weapons that she uses may even be her own flesh and blood, her children or other family members. That’s the intent to which she’ll go to inflict damage on the object of her rage.
They say that when a woman loves she loves deeply, therefore when that love is not returned or is cast away like the chaff from wheat, or the husk from corn, then the pain can be devastating. A man can be superficial when dealing with a woman, conflating love with lust, and can love ‘em and leave ‘em without even a cursory glance in his rear view mirror. That’s why men can move on so easily.
But when a woman gives her precious body and even more precious, her heart and soul to a man, and he embraces them all, then decides to spurn her after, expect a backlash of fire and brimstone.
That can have a devastating effect on a woman, as she feels as if her heart has been ripped from her chest. Some will go gently into the night, but others will lash out with the fury of a banshee just released from the depths of Hades.
Sometimes she will go after the man who spurned her, inflicting injury to his person, raining blows on him or even worse, mutilating him.
. Many times that fury is directed at the man and his possessions, as she’ll inflict great damage on his vehicle, destroying it by breaking every glass that she can, or she’ll cut up his clothes and throw them out the window like so much confetti from a ticker tape parade.
She’ll even go after his prized flat screen TV or stereo set, or mash up his apartment. At times though, this fury can be insidious, like a stealth bomber, as she uses the children of the union as pawns in her chess game of destruction.
There’s this case about this women who tried her best to keep her daughter from seeing the father because the relationship soured. Every effort that the man made to connect with his child, she would block it, preventing the man from
taking his child to father/daughter bonding activities, always making alternative plans in order to thwart his efforts.
“You can’t take her to the movies today, she has to wash her hair.”
This continued until she eventually left the country to live overseas with the child without even informing the dad, and eventually cut off all communication with the man who has no idea where his daughter is or what she’s doing.
A spurned woman’s fury has no boundaries. Yes, they’ll use the children against the man, wielding them like battering rams in order to get to him.
I have known women who carry grudges, fury and rage against men who have spurned them for many years, spanning decades. I have this friend who lives in the USA whose wife is still raging mad at him for spurning her. She hasn’t spoken to him for over thirty years and refuses to be in the same space as him.
Just like the fires of Hell, that fury can last for eternity. How can someone remain bitter and angry for so long? But Hell is forever they say, and so is the fury of a spurned woman. The irony is, the men have moved on, started new lives and never looked back, even as the woman is stewing in her bitterness and anger.
You can spurn a woman yes, but don’t turn your back on her and let down your guard, but keep looking over your shoulder or stay as far away as possible, for that fury can come in many ways.
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